I was often told that one of the most fascinating things about me is the refreshing self-confidence. Some readers consider this blog interesting mostly because of that – the way I share my experiences, the self-confident straightforwardness which does not make others feel guilty is what apparently makes my blog attractive.
Some people ask me about the secret behind this quality: How can I be so self-confident and at the same time not going into ego , the border is very fine as we all know…It’s time to reveal the secret!
I guess there are two things that make it:
1. I know myself very well. Since I was a child I was busy with discovering who I am, what my strengths and weaknesses are, I have always been introspective and seeking. This brought me a great advantage – the AWARENESS. I am aware of what I am. I know very well what makes my personality and what is still to improve. I know well what I am bad at. Or good at. This AWARENESS is what makes me confident.
But this is not enough! There is the second part of it which is quite rare in people, at least in the West. (more…)