A mere glance at various spiritual practitioners grasps the female dominance. Disregarding country and cultural background. Now more than at any other historical period. People wonder why women are seeking more then men, why are they outnumbering in that sphere of life?
The answer is as simple as genius: Men just have a bigger ego which does not allow them to surrender easily, for surrender is one of the core spitirual features. ” Real men” are so-called doers and while acting they are not inclined to think of themselves as of “God’s instruments”. Due to their nature, men are more on the right side, using their right sympathetic nervous system, being proactive, dominant, thinking, directing… All that blocks their emotional side, the side which brings one faster to God because of the connection through the heart.
At the same time the greatest saints, yogis are prophets of all times are mostly male. How to explain all that? The men who truly become the men of God, they managed to overcome their ego and along with their male nature, could develop their female side as well. They became compassionate, loving and forgiving. Thus, balancing and enriching both sides they in fact managed to become the perfect humans. For some ironical reason, if a woman starts using her male side (“right side”) as much as the female one, she is more likely to become an unpleasant rather that a holy personality…
Today more and more women take to Spirituality. This gives them peace and a lot of positivity however creates another huge problem: because the men do not catch up, women find it difficult to find the right partner. Ideally the perfect match should also match in spiritual matters! But many do not. Often, even when everything else matches, the lack of spiritual interest in a partner becomes a burden. What is the way out, how to resolve thins imbalance?
The answer again – is simple as that: women have to awaken the Spirituality in their men! This might be a hard task. But what is the other way out? To remain a single only because there is no adequately interested partner around? That is no good either, because being married is vital for spiritual growth (again the question of female-male energy balance).
I know many wonderful examples of remationships where women managed to inspire men for seeking their Spirit. And I also know many stories where is never worked out. And yet this seems the only reasonable solution to me. Considering that men are mostly pushed by women to their financial and social success, why should it be different in spiritual matters?
This can work on two levels:
-on the physical level, when literary every spiritual woman will work it out in her relationship
-or on the global level when the proportion of spiritual women will reach the critical mann and men will automatically follow as per law of social dynamics.
Let’s hope it happens soon otherwise I am getting worried for my wonderful female friends still seeking their best spiritual half.