1000 petals by axinia

the only truth I know is my own experience

Is marriage really made in heaven? March 25, 2012

Five years back, being still newly married (2 years) I wrote an article MARRIAGE: MADE IN HEAVEN. At that time I was delighted about being married and enjoyed every bit of it. Here are some abstracts from the post, but please do read the full version.

“Guess why somebody’s marriage gets people around so excited? Why a wedding ceremony is regarded as the most beautiful celebration in all the cultures, among all the nations? Even though the voices for “free love” are rising high, We can not cheat the collective consciousness, subconsciousness and unconsciousness of humanity – the institution of marriage is obviously not human, it is DIVINE…  


Second brain

The common mistake of modern times (as we are being well brain-washed) is that  it is the heart that shows you your life-partner. Very seldom it is the case. Naturally it should not be the heart, but actually your stomach! The key word s of a married life are sustenance, wellbeing, satisfaction, home – referring to our subtle centers they all belong to the 3rd one, in the middle of a body. Scientifically seen it is a place of a “second brain” as well. Meeting your life partner you should feel very comfortable in your stomach. Relaxed. Safe…  


And the love? It can come later… In fact the true love always comes later! It is so easy to fall in love with many people (happens to me all the time as I love people, every single soul is such a precious treasure, diamond flower!)… People are made by and for love. For loving each other, all of us. Only when it gets romantic, it is very misleading and confusing – and the folk’s wisdom calls it “falling” in love. In the western society where people believe in love-marriage we have up to 60% divorces! – A good sign of the reliability of this concept.


Blossoming out 

Last but not least indicator is your appearance. Our true being always shines (or darkens) through: no way to hide anything behind make up or smart clothing! Naturally after getting married to the right person you will find yourself blossoming out even physically. Woman softens; man gets more solid and masculine. Both of you perfectly balance each other which impacts the face and body. You blossom out like gorgeous peon flowers! Another interesting thing happening is that you decorate each other like an ornament. The ever-growing and ever-flowing beauty of a married life is truly one of the most sacred and blessed way of human relationships! ”

Today it has been exactly 7 years since I got married. Reviewing the article I wrote 5 years back I should admit….it is all true!  I am still convinced in everything I said years back, at least for us it works exactly this way.

And I do belive that marriage is made in heaven and consummated on Earth :).




5 Responses to “Is marriage really made in heaven?”

  1. Dmitri Says:

    hellow Axinia, Too you and your Husbend Vlodemir!
    I reed Your article…I’m Impressed by it…freindship brings auspiseneas…
    by frenship we gain such a lot
    so, do you watch spongebob on Televisioni???????? (//\\)
    The picture is muchu beautifal….I wish many years of happy maried-life…many many blessings to you and your family…. “:)

  2. mahesh chendake Says:

    Hi Axinia
    successful marriage turn a life on earth into heaven…

    24 th is our 17 th engagement day (24 .3.1995 at 1.20.pm)

    …. we have arranged marriage, according to our Lingayat tradition…..
    Today also I feel newly married I really dont know how these 17 years gone . we are happy and enjoying with our beloved two daughters . I hope my wife also having same feelings…. our relationship must be made in heaven ….!!!!
    what do u feel? because before marriage I used to feel lonly and somehow bored even though within family members and thousands around as I supposed to more popular among friends and even unknown professionals around me….. and now all centers at substal level get balanced … having feeling of getting thousands of such wedlock hours and many more life’s … together …!
    nice photo of cupple stilll enjoying enjoying….enjoying … Many happy and divine.. returns of the day … which u a very happy marriage anniversary !!!

  3. Dmitri Says:

    another thing i wonted to say is: why on pictures of Deity’s – the familiar theame is Husbend, wife and son………i didn’t know that the son has a wife too..really!!!

  4. Neha singh Says:

    awww happy wedding anniversary axinia didi :)))) picture is so b’ful…i am only 20 so i cnt really comment about marriage..:P …may shri maa bless both of u :))

  5. leylaergun Says:

    The Importance of Love by Leyla Ergun.

    Love is a strong feeling of affection for yourself and others, your environment and the world.

    Love is a positive emotional state causing peace and happiness within a person’s heart and mind and promotes good health.

    Actions driven by love are always good and true, that is why love is very important for everyone and everything.

    Love can make us want to sing, dance, smile, and shed tears of joy, help others and so much more.

    Love is a powerful and good emotion that everyone needs to feel. The love from one person can affect the lives of many others and can arouse the presence of love in others.

    Love can be awakened and accessed through our senses such as: sight, touch, sound, or through a person’s presence, known as their aura.

    Love lifts a person’s spirits and can change a person’s mood from sadness to happiness; it elevates people to carry on.

    All human beings and animals have the capacity to love and feel love; we are all beings of love: to give and to receive love.

    Love can be perfect or it can be ordinary, it is vast. When love is perfect, your heart and mind become one, and consumed with love.

    When Love is perfect, it is the ultimate experience of Love, which is a state of purity within oneself, and is reflected in the purity of our body, heart, and mind. When all three are consumed with love, one’s definition of right and wrong becomes naturally heightened and defined, and this helps everyone to make the right choices and decisions throughout their lives.

    It is the Love all people have inside, which helps bring people together, and is vital in forming long-term healthy relationships with people in society.

    When we feel love, it inspires us to care; and that is the meaning and the experience of life.

    Love is a feeling that needs to be protected in order to stay true, strong and well defined.

    To protect its integrity: the purer the love, the superior the good knowledge born from it; giving greater benefits for all.

    Love is an essential part of all of us to help live our lives well, as it regulates the emotional state of our body and keeps the body in balance.

    Love is a crucial part of our existence; it is what all people want to feel on a subconscious level. When the subconscious merges with the conscious then the gift of love can be fully appreciated and understood.

    It is not uncommon for love to sometimes get confused and mixed up with other feelings such as lust, which can make the experience of love an emotionally painful, regrettable and empty one in some cases, but purification is the cure for such instances, and will put a person back on the clear path to love.

    For further reading, a good book that talks about love is The Reason by Leyla Ergun.

    Love on leylaergun.co.uk

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