This is another beautiful phenomenon I noticed over the yeas: say, there is a quality you admire but miss. If you admire it and keep praising it to people posessing it, soon it will become yours.
It happened to me several times and the “wonder” part about that is that the qualities I obtained through this “method” were far away from my natural abilities. Let me give you two examples.
1.When I moved to Austria many years back I was fascinated by the ability of Austrians to manage things, to organize everything so well – compared to Russia that impressed me a lot because unfortunately missing in my motherland. I kept praising Austrians for that. And one day I discovered that I could manifest the same quality well and good even on the international level. Important: neither a type of character I was not at all a person capable of that, nor was I interested in organizing or managing anything. Many years passed and this valuable “manager” quality is still with me. Thank you, Austria!
2. Being a pure humanitie I have always been hopeless at technical stuff. My husband is engineer and his ability to give simple technical solutions for household or travel fascinates be a lot. I have been praising him for that for years and suddenly….find myself inventing little practical things and finding some technical solutions here and there. Just because I have been so far from it considering my nature, it feels like a miracle to me!
I wonder if this another aspect of LOVE energy (admiration as love) that works this way? Then it is such a great and easy solution for any learning process. And the best part of it that consciously you don’t need to learn: just love and admire, and the quality will flow into you! A truly divine process…