This special day is my favorite in the Christian tradition. Having an atheistic background, I have been always deeply touched by the candid Christian Orthodox celebration of “Forgiveness Sunday”.
The last Sunday before Great Lent, is the day when Orthodox Christians remember the expulsion of Adam and Eve from Paradise. “Forgiveness Sunday” received this name from the pious custom at Vespers of asking each other’s forgiveness for discourtesy and disrespect. People do so, since in the forthcoming fast they will approach the sacrament of Penance and ask the Lord to forgive their sins, which forgiveness will be granted us only if people themselves forgive each other. “If ye forgive men their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. But if ye forgive not men their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses.” (Matt. 6.14, 15)”
Since the 90-s when religion slowly started getting its position back with the peoples of Russia, the tradition of Forgiveness Sunday came back. According to it, you can ask forgiveness of every person you meet this day, but especially people whom you might have really done some harm, or just your relatives and friends (we never know if by chance we could have hurt anyone!)... Normally one person greets another and says “please forgive me”, in response he/she says “God will forgive you. And I forgive too”, then they can hug each other heartily… Isn’t it beautiful?
As we all know forgiveness is the core message of Christianity and also a powerful tool to free our blocked heads from a mess of thouhgts. Forgivenss is a must! I have posted already long ago about the forgiving power of Russians, and I am sure it has a lot to do with this beautiful rite that has been practiced collectively since a millenia.
Remebering this wonderful tradition today, let me humbly ask each of you, my dearest readers PLEASE FORGIVE ME.
LOVE & HUG,