photo von vova
Forgiveness is strangely enough something very difficult for many people. Especially for Christians – while it is the Jesus Christ who brought that message of forgiveness!
Living and Europe and particularly in Austria that is famous for being very catholic I meet lots of people who can not even think of forgiveness. Normally forgiveness is not the topic one likes to discuss. Then how do I know that? Though my experiences of giving self-realisation at Sahaja Yoga programmes or at some other occasions.
One condition to get self-realisation is to forgive oneself and everyone – otherwise the energy of Kundalini cannot pass the Agnia Chakra and get out on top of the head. And also because of non-forgiving one may experience some pressure in the head (btw, headache is often the result of non-forgiving!)
The truth is that forgiveness is not only easy but also pretty necessary for everyone. In fact, it is a matter of common sense! When I cannot forgive I keep thinking about the person/people, again and again. Stupid waste of energy! The more so, the only person that will be harmed by my non-forgiving is myself – the people whom I cannot forgive have no problems with that, for they mostly even do not suspect that! Only when it comes to revenge they can suffer – but are we sill that barbaric to think of revenge?
TO FORGIVE IS EASY BECAUSE YOU DON`T DO ANYTHING. Forgiving is not about “doing”, it is actually about “NOT doing”: not being angry, offended, not feeling hurt, not making a drama.
As it goes in the play “HERO & ZERO” that I review some time ago: JUST DON`T DO IT.
As I mentioned already in several posts, I have never had difficulties with forgiving anyone, that may be the reason why I love to write about it 🙂
Then how to forgive? My personally tipp is really easy: just forget. As if “it” has never happened… Because “it” does not exist anymore. The past is no more there.
P.S: The fire on this picture is another tipp: looking at fire clears out the head, out Agnia chackra. Therefore is especially reccomended for those with forgiving problems. It is not by chance that peoplè love to sing sitting around the fire: the head gets free and the hearts opens!