Most women love generous men. At least I never met any who does not :).
Are men actually aware of that fact? And if not than why? Because the ladies keep silent on the topic?
I love making private social studies with my friends and colleagues. One of the most popular topics – of course! – the gender relationships (actually I have another blog dedicated to that topic). According to my oral surveys through years, most of the girls consider two main things the most important in men: RELIABILITY and GENEROSITY.
My favorite topic is generosity (and reliability goes without saying!).
Why generosity is so important for ladies?
Let me give you my explanation. I believe that generally a woman has many more ways to express her love, her tenderness. It is not the case with a man. Even if he truly loves, he just can not perform that 1000 and one tricks, sweet gestures that a woman can (either it is the nature or it is socially based). He can not even protect! – in most of the cases we live in a relatively peaceful society without the need of any physical protection. Then what can the poor guy do? How can he express his powerful yet hidden love?
The best way is to be generous. And we, girls, know that! We know that and appreciate that. Generous with time, attention, communication, money… Because generosity is the material manifestation of LOVE.
It is probably the only reason why the Matter exists at all (otherwise it brings only trouble!).
So if you love – express your generosity.
If you do not love – still express it and you will love!
Because generosity opens the heart.