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The nature of comments – that probably most precious part of blogging! – has been fascinating me since the beginning of my blogging experiences. For some reasons (and I always thought the reason was my so called femininity, may be cute picture, smart texts, naive beliefs) I used to get 90% of male comments, on all my blogs. That was somewhat strange but for the reason given above quite understandable.
Until the last week. Last week I suddenly found out that all (!) comments on my blogs have been done by ladies. Hmm… What was the cause?
Taking in consideration such a dramatic change in the readers` support, I tried to introspect and see what could be the cause of it. And suddenly it strices me that actually exactly at that time my heart is being very open – and what is unusual to me – filled with compassion to every living creature. And that is very, very feminine… Compassion is actually the core female value, right?
Being a joyful and loving person, I normally lack of compassion – that is the quality I adore the most and it is not easy to feel, as I am often too strict 🙂 Love and compassion are very close, but not the same (I define it as motherly and fatherly love).
Anyway, I believe that may be for the first time in my life I started feeling compassion so strong, and probably have been emitting it even through blogging (although last week posts are not different from my ususal style and topics). Does it mean that my regular content is more appealing to men? And probably emit more right-sided vibrations?
Whatever it may be, I find this development mysterious indeed and look forward to the future comments 😉 Who is first – ladies or gentleman?