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A child in me – is it still there?
The quality that lays in the basis of a human being is “childness”, the one which gifts us with innocence, wisdom, spontaneity and living in the present. The one that has been destroyed the most in the past century – and is being very much abused even today.
The most incredible and stupid thing I can never understand is why people want to look “sexy”. For what???
“If I look sexy, people will like me” – really???
“If I look sexy, i am “in” – but then you are just like everybody else, is it interesting?
“If I look sexy men want me /girls are crazy about getting in my bed” – but would you really want everybody to sleep with you?? NO, not everybody? But they are all doing it in their heads anyway reducing your person to a body.
Very cheap…
Reasonable question – what is more attractive than sexy look?
It is your freshness. The freshness of a child.
How to get it back?
- when you go on the street, do not look in the eyes of the passing people, don`t try to catch their look in a hope that they look at you
- while walking look to the earth
- try to see nature as much as possible. Nature is innocent and always fresh
- stop flirting! (where is your dignity? If you are dignified, people will seek your company as a bee seeks honey; be attractive by other means, don`t be cheapish)
It`s a hard start – but the flourishing of the results will be there!
LOVE,
axinia
axinia
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One more thing to How to get it back: joy always attracts people, thus, try to see joy in life, grow it in yourself and share it with people. Most little chidlren are so joyful and we cannot but smile looking at them.
Thanks, Anastasia – I was just going to write about it 😉
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And mainly be pure at heart…others like joy automatically follow 🙂
I wonder what excactly do people mean by “pure at hert”?
hehe…hmm …i dunno about others…when I say pure at heart i mean innocent….not having any malice…
Be forthright and honest. If you have a thought you want to hide, better banish it.
“while walking look to the earth”
Axinia, you sound like granny 🙂 Yes, it is very effective.
(This post needs reposting.
Thanks Ramya, keep unearthing more gems like this 🙂
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Hello Axinia 🙂
My name is Tata,
I am very glad to find your blog with such interesting themes.
After reading your last post, I decided to start from the beggining and I an starting reading from this post.
I started blogging in summer 2008 on Myspace.com
But then I opened wordpress for me.
It’s a pity that you cannot read my blog also, as it is on my own language.
I liked this post very much, as I am 29 years old now but still feel the child in me, still feel that I need to play, to walk to breath. Also I am pregnant now and waiting for another baby in me in 6 weeks.
Please tell me about you also, how old are you and where from 🙂
:kiss:
Hi Tata,
I am glad you like my blog 🙂 please read and enjoy!
I wonder if you are Russian?? (your nickname reminds me of something:)
I am Russian, 33 years old.
No, I am Georgian, I live in Tbilisi
Nice to meet you 🙂
I like ” LIVE TRAFFIC FEED” on your blog, can you teach me how you made that? 🙂 :blush:
Net, ia gruzinka 🙂
Jivu v T bilisi
ok, no ty govorish po Russki 🙂
Da ia govoriu po russki i po angliski toje
no pisat tut budu po angliski, ato mnogie ne znaiut russki 🙂
sure, that is perfect! happy to see more of your comments here 🙂