A child in me – is it still there?
The quality that lays in the basis of a human being is “childness”, the one which gifts us with innocence, wisdom, spontaneity and living in the present. The one that has been destroyed the most in the past century – and is being very much abused even today.
The most incredible and stupid thing I can never understand is why people want to look “sexy”. For what???
“If I look sexy, people will like me” – really???
“If I look sexy, i am “in” – but then you are just like everybody else, is it interesting?
“If I look sexy men want me /girls are crazy about getting in my bed” – but would you really want everybody to sleep with you?? NO, not everybody? But they are all doing it in their heads anyway reducing your person to a body.
Reasonable question – what is more attractive than sexy look?
It is your freshness. The freshness of a child.
How to get it back?
- when you go on the street, do not look in the eyes of the passing people, don`t try to catch their look in a hope that they look at you
- while walking look to the earth
- try to see nature as much as possible. Nature is innocent and always fresh
- stop flirting! (where is your dignity? If you are dignified, people will seek your company as a bee seeks honey; be attractive by other means, don`t be cheapish)
It`s a hard start – but the flourishing of the results will be there!